The Brutal Costs When Families Fail to Plan | David Edey

What happens when your “final gift” to your family is actually a legal and emotional mess? This episode explores the hidden weight of being an executor and how you can make that role kinder, clearer, and less chaotic for the people you leave behind.

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What happens when your “final gift” to your family is actually a legal and emotional mess? This episode explores the hidden weight of being an executor and how you can make that role kinder, clearer, and less chaotic for the people you leave behind.

Host Niki Weiss, digital legacy planner and creator of My Final Playbook, is joined by David Edey, Certified Executor Advisor and author of Executor Help, who brings 40+ years in finance—and a deeply personal family story of a 7-year estate battle—to this essential conversation. Together, they break down what executors really face and how better planning can prevent family conflict, confusion, and regret.

In this episode, we cover:

  • What an executor actually does (and why it’s such a heavy job)

  • How to choose the right executor, not just the oldest or “favorite” child

  • When and why to update your will as life, family, and assets change

  • Options for solo-agers who don’t have a traditional family support system

  • Simple ways to start difficult family conversations about death, money, and expectations

Tune in for a grounded, compassionate look at executorship and estate planning, perfect for anyone thinking about digital legacy, end-of-life planning, or how to leave less chaos and more clarity for the people they love.

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